- Do not fall in love every time you fall in bed.
...Learn to detach emotionally.
Sex does not equal commitment. - Do not revolve your entire life around him/her.
...Addiction is bad for your health! - Do not cling, act needy or demand.
...Doormats are for your feet, not your heart. - It's OK to say NO!
- Stop talking so much. NEVER reveal everything.
- Do not grill them or their friends for information.
- Master the art of LISTENING.
- Treat him/her as you would your best friend.
- Friendship creates long term love and comes before sex.
- FORGET about fixing your partner. IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN.
- Your choice of partner is a reflection of who you are and who you are not!
- NEVER read their journal or go through their paperwork.
...If you have no trust, you have no relationship. - Allow space and freedom between you.
DO NOT always be available. - Calling frequently is a turn off and signals insecurity, neediness
and control. - Open your eyes to lies and cheating, OR... close them,justify the bad behavior, and live with the consequences
- Little or no eye contact? Start walking. They won'teven notice your gone.
- Anyone preoccupied with their physical appearance and dress, usually have very little or nothing to offer from within.
...Look beyond the physical! - Never compromise your values.
If you OVER give, you will lose your lover and hisrespect.
DO NOT LOSE YOUR IDENTITY. - December/May relationships are great. However, seasons changeand the
May lover will sooner or later, hear the call of Spring. - If someone REALLY wants to be with you, they will be.
- Sleeping with a married man? Don't count on him divorcing anytime soon.
- State your personal rules in the very beginning or expect them to be broken.
- If they ask to be just friends, be just that and look elsewhere for a love partner.
- If someone wants to really be with you, they will. If they keep giving reasons for not calling or say they are extremely busy, GET THE HINT, leave them alone.
- Don't ever give up your friends for him/her.
Thursday, July 29, 2004
Rules for surviving the game of love
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- Do not fall in love every time you fall in bed.
...Learn to detach emotionally.
Sex does not equal commitment. - Do not revolve your entire life around him/her.
...Addiction is bad for your health! - Do not cling, act needy or demand.
...Doormats are for your feet, not your heart. - It's OK to say NO!
- Stop talking so much. NEVER reveal everything.
- Do not grill them or their friends for information.
- Master the art of LISTENING.
- Treat him/her as you would your best friend.
- Friendship creates long term love and comes before sex.
- FORGET about fixing your partner. IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN.
- Your choice of partner is a reflection of who you are and who you are not!
- NEVER read their journal or go through their paperwork.
...If you have no trust, you have no relationship. - Allow space and freedom between you.
DO NOT always be available. - Calling frequently is a turn off and signals insecurity, neediness
and control. - Open your eyes to lies and cheating, OR... close them,justify the bad behavior, and live with the consequences
- Little or no eye contact? Start walking. They won'teven notice your gone.
- Anyone preoccupied with their physical appearance and dress, usually have very little or nothing to offer from within.
...Look beyond the physical! - Never compromise your values.
If you OVER give, you will lose your lover and hisrespect.
DO NOT LOSE YOUR IDENTITY. - December/May relationships are great. However, seasons changeand the
May lover will sooner or later, hear the call of Spring. - If someone REALLY wants to be with you, they will be.
- Sleeping with a married man? Don't count on him divorcing anytime soon.
- State your personal rules in the very beginning or expect them to be broken.
- If they ask to be just friends, be just that and look elsewhere for a love partner.
- If someone wants to really be with you, they will. If they keep giving reasons for not calling or say they are extremely busy, GET THE HINT, leave them alone.
- Don't ever give up your friends for him/her.
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